Has your boyfriend left you or has this happened to you earlier and you wish to be careful not to allow it to happen again? Well it’s quite natural and here are some powerful ways to make your boyfriend never leave you.
Analyze the cause of this fear
Analyze what could be the cause of this fear in you. Has he stopped seeing you completely or less frequently these days? Or is he seeing someone else? Well you need to identify what the cause of this could be before your fear gets the better of you.
Are your expectations too much
Are you by chance expecting your guy to meet you too often or give all of his free time to you? If so, then it’s natural for him to keep away. He wants his own space and freedom and time to do things he wants, rather than spend with you, all his free time.
Stop the nag
One very important point that you should bear in mind is never to nag. To constantly probe, remind or question about things that should be followed up or done is highly resented by a man. They want to feel master of their circumstances and do things the way they want.
Don’t be easily available
No man likes to feel that he has a girl who is readily available every time he wants to go out with her or contact her. Maintain your dignity and space too. Show him that you too have a life of your own and not dependent on him for all your social activities.
While you keep your distance and refrain from following him around all the time do show the caring side of your nature. Whenever you’re with him show him all the care and concern that will help you pamper him and fuss over him. He will be more attached to you.
Don’t be flirtatious
You don’t necessarily need to be flirtatious while you maintain your distance and space. Do be outgoing and busy with all the activities that you like to do. Enjoy yourself and meet lots of friends and make new friends too, but be committed and loyal to him.
Be honest and open
If you really want your guy to never leave you then inculcate qualities of being honest and open as well. Learn not to hide things from him or keep him in the dark about your activities, friends, problems or whatever. Learn to share and confide in him and ask his suggestions too.